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As people have said above though, you need to figure out if you can forgive him for what he's done and let him work his way back into your good books.
I do think this deserves a little actual WORK on his part to get back in your good books if you are going to let him though.
My main question is has this ever happened to anyone else, and if so how did you get over it? It's been bout roughly 1 month, maybe a little more since I for gave him for ir what he's done.
Well, what he did was probably verging on, if not was, cybersex. Console yourself with the fact that he's treated you badly and you're worth a heck of a lot more than him. Every single day I still have visions of the things he did, what makes it worse for me is that she's very young and he kinda looks like a pervert. It's been a all love end romance since we movedon from it allthough I still being up little things HTC trigger the whole thing that happened. The only advice I can give you is to ask yourself do you actually want somebody who have smelly went behind your back and seeked you look for someone else's private parts.
He needs to find a way to reestablish the trust that he broke, but if he can do that it'll probably be worth it for the both of you and make your relationship stronger as long as there's definitely no repeat.
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You also have to remember that if you choose to forgive someone, you have to do that, you can't hold their mistakes against them, you've got to learn to forgive and then try to forget. From experience, I can say with some confidence that however upsetting uncovering something like this is, it is often just the tip of the iceberg.
I've had long-term relationships with 2 serial cheaters (One was a 4 year relationship, had been cheating on me for at least 6 months, the other was a 2 year relationship, he was cheating for almost a year), and both times I had no idea (I'd say I was a pretty intelligent person, these men were maticulous at covering their tracks, in both cases the other girl (s) didn't know he had a girlfriend).
He was trying to get intimate with another girl, even though he never physically touched her. Someone who asked to sexually play with another woman.
I forgave my bf because he told me he was truly sorry for what he did. HE STILL ****ING MAKES MY LIFE HE'LL AND YOU NEED TO ****ING GET RID OF HIM !!!!
Both times I found out by stumbling across "minor" things (and they swore it was a "one-off", loved me et cetera) and the full extent only emerged when I dug deeper.. If he has tendancies to be unfaithful, what you've seen won't be the full picture.